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Elliott Katz is a speaker and author of Being the Strong Man A Woman Wants: Timeless wisdom on being a man. Translated into 24 languages around the world, the book shares insights on how men can improve their relationships and regain love and respect. Dec 21, 2017  Always keep in mind that a strong woman knows what she wants and a man who loves to play games is definitely not part if it. If a strong woman is interested in you and you try to play games with her, she would drop you post haste, attraction or no attraction and seek her amusement elsewhere and you would be the one with a loss.

(Read this article as: ) Because this is a page about attracting women, I’m obligated by internet law to plaster pictures of hot women all over it. She sat by herself at the bar of the restaurant. Her only company was a book. I sidled up near her, two stools apart, maybe three, as casual as I could muster.

I would quote what I said, but my attempt at a joke sputtered out of me so poorly that I’m not even sure it made sense. She looked up at me and there was a moment of silence between us so awkward, you could have stabbed me in the groin and I wouldn’t have noticed.

Her face quickly went from confusion to disgust. My mind raced for some sort of recovery.

Some sort of new, more clever joke to make up for my failed attempt at my original, semi-clever joke. Nothing came. In the past, I sulked away in this situation having embarrassed myself again.

But this time something in me snapped — or not snapped, but rather, something resigned itself. I sighed and said, “I’m sorry, I was trying to be clever.

I just wanted to say hi.” The air eased between us a bit. Her disgust faded and she gave me kind of a friendly grin, “It’s OK. It was a nice try I guess.” I laughed, “No it wasn’t.” She laughed and I sat down next to her. There’s a lot of advice on attracting women out there. And what most of it misses is that attraction, seduction, intimacy, sex, whatever you want to call it — is an emotional process, not a physical or social one. You can say the “wrong” things and still attract a woman. You can say all of the “right” things and repel her.

What matters is the intention, the motivation, the authenticity. To improve your dating life, you must improve your emotional life — how you feel about yourself and others, how you express yourself to others, etc.

It’s not about learning lines or routines or dressing up a certain way. It’s about unmasking the unique and attractive man within yourself and joyfully expressing it to the women of the world. That may sound vague, but it has very real repercussions on your interactions with women. People choose who they’re going to be with based on how they feel around that person.